The shadier side of being polite.
Oh.. what can I say the end arrives earlier than designated. The end here I mean is not a breaking up.. I would say breaking up is courageous, rather we let the relationships fade. Fading is the worst kind of death. You do things that you have done for name sake. You hold on to things that were never yours. You try to make time for them when all that you ever want is to be safe in your cocoon, not in the judging presence of people who put you down for all that you are. This comes from the people who we know and whom we love.. that causes the extraa hurt in everything that you do.. you are conditioned in such a that you would always choose to be polite. Yes, I accept we are bought up with excessive manners that we would always rather hurt the person with feeding him lies that letting them go. Telling them this doesn't serves you.. telling them no this not what I signed up.. telling them that evolution is important and impermanence is the only permanence.. rather all we choose is to act as if nothing has happened.. and build on it.. because acting like this would emphasis it more and more.... but let me tell you it is injustice done first to yourself and then to the other person too.. Its injustice that you can’t confront, nor accept or see what you have done.. but you don't see this, all you see and say is that time will heal all wounds.. it’s not time that heals all wounds.. it’s just you forget it.. but do you get healed? That becomes the question here. As you live in denial more, the more you don’t see, rather don’t want to see what is what.. you are not accepting of what you are and as you wear this mask.. you just grow away from everything that is you .. and you mold yourself in way that is polite in terms of society.. and we politely avoid, we politely be passive aggressive, we politely transfer the blame, we politely smile and comment and live a happy lie.
